Soulmate

God created everything in perfect balance. There are left and right, good and bad, yin and yang. So, somewhere out there, there must be a soulmate who makes our lives so balanced.

A soulmate is someone who makes us feeling safe enough to open our selves, we can completely and honestly become who we are; and not for who we’re pretending to be. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we’re safe in our own paradise. 

"She is my first thought in the morning

She is my last thought at the dark of night

I love her with all of my heart,

And i will take care her for all of my life."

When we are in relationship; it means we are making direction. Well, I do really like this quote "When we’re two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are we’ve found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life.”

Whoever she is, she could be your soulmate. She comes to bring good change for yourself and your life. She willingly give you the best without expecting to receive. She'll always be behind you giving spirit and also happy when you are happy. She is special, unique, impressive and gives meaning to your life. :)

Stand up Comedy

Recently i was interested in standup comedy. I think Indonesian people need intelligent humor otherwise slapstick humor that often appears on TV. 

Stand Up comedy in Indonesia began to rise in mid-2011, popularized by a reality show styled TV program, held by one private television station in Indonesia, following open auditions in several major cities in Indonesia. Since then, more TV stations in the country have already started or planned their own versions of stand up comedy shows.

Here are two celebrities, Raditya Dika and Pandji Pragiwaksono started promoting and doing stand up, and uploading their acts for the public. They are my favourite !

Enjoy the show :)

Raditya Dika #StandupNite

Pandji #StandupNite

Jakarta Lair's Coaching Clinic

In order to share knowledge, and new member recruitment, Jakarta Lair Coaching Clinic was held on December 10th , 2011 at the bistro musketeers, Tebet. The concept was different from previous coaching clinic, because it was more interactive and the content was simpler but effective.


We as a VIP team was amazed by the enthusiasm of participants, Danar as a moderator of succed led them to be excited. After a brief self introduction, the event continued with the material described by reza. The material presented in the form of Appearance, Mental and Communication, many tips were shared and many questions also. 


My Favorite parts about the coaching clinic was when Field Report, Where Haykal and Jay told their funny experiences about approach, and also aurick that give little tips on anchoring. In the end of session we got Mr. Chaos as Guest speaker. 


After Coaching Clinic ended, we still shared with the others, many question that should be answered, haha what a bussy nite.., but we were glad they had high spirit to improve them selves.


Well anyway that was awesome moment for me, Thank's for all friends who attendded, Hafis for preparing sound system and All VIP Team , You guys ROCK ! 

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Happiness Is A Choice

"Are you happy?" This is a simple question, but not everyone knows the answer. You may think that achievements, money, beautiful girl friend or social status can make you happy. For some people, they are already buying new cars or having vacation around Europe, but still not found their happiness.

Actually, happiness doesn't come from outside. it is always with you, in your mind. Happiness is just like a butterfly. It will runaway when you try to catch, but if you relax and stay calm then it will come to you. Your life offers many opportunities to find happiness.

Doesn't matter who you are, you have right to be happy. So from now on begin to think all things you should be grateful.There's no shortcut to achieve happiness. Happy people even though, not entirely happy for 24 hours. they could have bad day, but still can feel the joy in their lives.

Stop complaining, whining and look at negative side of every situation. Revise your mindset and review all of choice that you have ever made. Life is easy but sometime you have to make difficult choice. Should never put off your decision to be happy. you may lost the most beautiful thing you have because of your hesitation in making decision. 

So, what must i do? just declare "i choose to be happy". You can write that choice on the paper, then put it on your wallet. Every time you feel bad, this paper will be useful. Doing little thing, such as smiling or playing with your friends. realize that only by taking a few minutes to think about the good things in your life such as eating a balanced diet, adequate rest, moderate exercise every morning to bring happiness in your life.

Any thing that will happen to you in the future depends on your mind today. So think positively, full of patience and confidence. Because your happiness is determined by your own decision.